{"id":145,"date":"2014-10-22T08:25:00","date_gmt":"2014-10-22T08:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/?p=145"},"modified":"2025-01-04T17:16:39","modified_gmt":"2025-01-04T17:16:39","slug":"bazi-adamlarin-hepsi-22-eki-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/2014\/10\/22\/bazi-adamlarin-hepsi-22-eki-2014\/","title":{"rendered":"BAZI ADAMLARIN HEPS\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131 adamlar\u0131n (dikkat edin! t\u00fcm\u00fc de\u011fil), hepsinin deli olma ihtimali var m\u0131? Neden derseniz,<br>\u015fimdi bunlar, nerede tek ba\u015f\u0131na bir kad\u0131n g\u00f6rseler, bir adam\u0131 bekledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Diyelim<br>ki hakl\u0131lar, bilin\u00e7li veya bilin\u00e7siz kad\u0131n bir adam\u0131 bekliyor; da\u2026..niye bunlar her kad\u0131n\u0131n<br>kendilerini bekledi\u011fini zannediyorlar?!?<br>\u0130nsan yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131 gere\u011fi, \u00e7ift olmak, tek kalmamak, \u00e7o\u011falmak ve \u00e7ok olmak, birlikte ya\u015famak<br>\u00fczere tasarlanm\u0131\u015f bir yarat\u0131k. Buraya kadar hemfikiriz, herhalde\u2026. Ve diyelim ki, kad\u0131n veya<br>erkek yaln\u0131z\u2026. Neden mutlaka \u00e7iftle\u015fmek iste\u011fi duydu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz gerekiyor? Tabii ki,<br>insan\u0131n yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi ve yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f gereksinimlerinden biri\u2026..ancak\u2026..belki, yaln\u0131z kalmak<br>istiyor, belki kalbi k\u0131r\u0131k ve can\u0131 \u00e7ok yand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, kimsenin yan\u0131na yakla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyor, belki<br>i\u015fi, g\u00fcc\u00fc, derdi, kederi var. Ciddi bir hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 var, \u00f6lmek \u00fczere, bir yak\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ok yak\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm<br>d\u00f6\u015fe\u011finde. Mesela, iflas etmi\u015f, kar\u0131s\u0131 veya kocas\u0131 ile problemi var, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131, bunalt\u0131s\u0131, bulant\u0131s\u0131<br>ve dahas\u0131 belki de bo\u015fanmas\u0131 var. Mecbur mu, bir grup insan\u0131n beklentilerini, abuk sabuk<br>hayallerini veya ne bileyim sa\u00e7ma sapan fantezilerini kar\u015f\u0131lamaya, her daim, kesintisiz ve bolca<br>(maalesef hi\u00e7 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmeyecek kadar \u00e7okcalar) baz\u0131 adamlar\u0131n hepsi ile muattap<br>olmaya\u2026\u2026mecbur mu? Onlar, her an, her saniye, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck beyinleriyle, yaln\u0131z bir av pe\u015findeler<br>diye, her \u00f6nlerinden ge\u00e7en de, onlarla ayn\u0131 duygular\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yacak, kendini onlara g\u00f6re<br>ayarlayacak, saklanacak, s\u0131zlanacak, o da avlanacak, de\u011fil ya\u2026. Hadi diyelim \u00f6yle? Hepsi<br>birden, kendisi ile ilgili olabilece\u011fi yan\u0131lsamas\u0131na nas\u0131l kap\u0131l\u0131yorlar? Onlara ne? Bunlar, muhtar<br>m\u0131? bek\u00e7i? m\u00fcd\u00fcr? Yoksa Allah korusun! Deli mi? Ne? Hangisi? S\u00f6yleseler de, ona g\u00f6re<br>davransak kendilerine!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"119\" height=\"56\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/image-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Baz\u0131 adamlar\u0131n (dikkat edin! t\u00fcm\u00fc de\u011fil), hepsinin deli olma ihtimali var m\u0131? Neden derseniz,\u015fimdi bunlar, nerede tek ba\u015f\u0131na bir kad\u0131n g\u00f6rseler, bir adam\u0131 bekledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Diyelimki hakl\u0131lar, bilin\u00e7li veya bilin\u00e7siz kad\u0131n bir adam\u0131 bekliyor; da\u2026..niye bunlar her kad\u0131n\u0131nkendilerini bekledi\u011fini zannediyorlar?!?\u0130nsan yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131 gere\u011fi, \u00e7ift olmak, tek kalmamak, \u00e7o\u011falmak ve \u00e7ok olmak, birlikte ya\u015famak\u00fczere tasarlanm\u0131\u015f bir yarat\u0131k. &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":146,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sohbet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=145"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1474,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145\/revisions\/1474"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/146"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}