{"id":172,"date":"2014-12-01T08:51:00","date_gmt":"2014-12-01T08:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/?p=172"},"modified":"2025-01-04T17:17:45","modified_gmt":"2025-01-04T17:17:45","slug":"erkek-asik-olur-ya-kadin-1-ara-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/2014\/12\/01\/erkek-asik-olur-ya-kadin-1-ara-2014\/","title":{"rendered":"ERKEK A\u015eIK OLUR, YA KADIN???"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Bi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm de; do\u011fru ger\u00e7ekten\u2026.. Hi\u00e7 yol kenar\u0131nda\u2026..??? Adam, a\u015fk\u0131n karas\u0131ndan, kendini
alkol\u00fcn avutucu s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, yol kenarlar\u0131na at\u0131p, yaral\u0131 kalbini avutur ve d\u00fcnyadan ge\u00e7er.
A\u015fkla uyur, a\u015fkla uyan\u0131r, a\u015fk i\u00e7er, a\u015fk yer\u2026.. Do\u011frusu, utanas\u0131m geldi, kad\u0131n oldu\u011fumdan! \u015eu
adamlar\u0131n kalbinin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yan\u0131nda, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 s\u0131radan, bencil ve duygusuz bulmak \u00fczere
iken\u2026\u2026.film koptu! Allah Allah! Bu kad\u0131nlar neredeler ki? Adamlar, a\u015fk kederinden
da\u011f\u0131l\u0131rken? Cevap haz\u0131r bile! Bu adam, bu hale d\u00fc\u015ferken, yan\u0131ndaki kad\u0131n tamamen
d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr!\u2026a\u015fk\u0131n imitasyonunda bile erke\u011fe, \u015fak\u015fak\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k yapan toplum, hele ki b\u00f6ylesi bir
b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u015fkta, kad\u0131n\u0131 tamamen ala\u015fa\u011f\u0131 etmi\u015f, vurmu\u015f, incitmi\u015f, olmad\u0131 \u00e7arm\u0131ha germi\u015ftir. Ya da,
kad\u0131n, utan\u00e7, ac\u0131 ve \u0131zd\u0131raptan, a\u011f\u0131r depresyon vakas\u0131 haline gelmi\u015ftir. Bu a\u015fk\u0131n, olmayan
taraf\u0131ndaki, olmayan kad\u0131n\u0131nsa\u2026..esas ironi de buradad\u0131r!\u2026bahsi ge\u00e7en, her iki karakter kadar
bile \u015fans\u0131 yoktur; olmayan kad\u0131n, kalpsiz, insafs\u0131z kad\u0131n, bu adamlar\u0131n,-ne yapay\u0131m
dayanam\u0131yorum-diye, da\u011f\u0131t\u0131p \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131, hayat\u0131 tekrar toparlamak, d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcp sa\u00e7\u0131lan ev bark, \u00e7oluk
\u00e7ocuk, varsa d\u00fczg\u00fcn i\u015f ve aileyi tekrar toparlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan anas\u0131 a\u011flamakta; kad\u0131nl\u0131k
gururunu bir kenara b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, ayakta kalabilmek u\u011fruna, kendinden bile ge\u00e7ip, devrald\u0131\u011f\u0131
enkaz\u0131 tekrar hayata ge\u00e7irmekle me\u015fguld\u00fcr. Ve i\u015fte, bu tablodaki yeri, ruhsuz, kalpsiz,
ac\u0131mas\u0131zd\u0131r. Adamlarsa, hem a\u015fk\u0131 ya\u015fama, hem toplum, hem aile g\u00f6z\u00fcnde, olmad\u0131, bu \u015fekildeki
durumlara, kendini bizzat koyarak, kendini kendine, ac\u0131nd\u0131rma halleri ile nas\u0131l da duygulu,
insan, ger\u00e7ek a\u015fkl\u0131d\u0131r\u2026 ancak ger\u00e7ekte, bu resmi olu\u015fturan adam\u2026\u2026sorumsuz, bencil, can\u0131n\u0131n
istedi\u011fini yapabilecek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckte bir canavard\u0131r. Herkese verdi\u011fi zarar yetmemi\u015f gibi, bir de
sokaklardaki asayi\u015fi bozmakta, \u00e7evre kirlili\u011fi ve kaosu yaratmaktad\u0131r. Evet, hi\u00e7 yol kenar\u0131nda,
i\u00e7ip s\u0131zan, a\u015fktan berdu\u015f olan\u2026\u2026\u2026kad\u0131n g\u00f6rmedik\u2026Allah’a \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr! Kad\u0131n yine b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc
g\u00f6sterip, her \u015feyi sineye \u00e7ekip, \u00f6n\u00fcne bakt\u0131 da, toplumlar ya\u015fayabilme \u015fans\u0131 kazand\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm de; do\u011fru ger\u00e7ekten\u2026.. Hi\u00e7 yol kenar\u0131nda\u2026..??? Adam, a\u015fk\u0131n karas\u0131ndan, kendinialkol\u00fcn avutucu s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, yol kenarlar\u0131na at\u0131p, yaral\u0131 kalbini avutur ve d\u00fcnyadan ge\u00e7er.A\u015fkla uyur, a\u015fkla uyan\u0131r, a\u015fk i\u00e7er, a\u015fk yer\u2026.. Do\u011frusu, utanas\u0131m geldi, kad\u0131n oldu\u011fumdan! \u015euadamlar\u0131n kalbinin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yan\u0131nda, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 s\u0131radan, bencil ve duygusuz bulmak \u00fczereiken\u2026\u2026.film koptu! Allah Allah! Bu kad\u0131nlar neredeler ki? Adamlar, a\u015fk …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":173,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sohbet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=172"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/172\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1483,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/172\/revisions\/1483"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gulmisal.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}